Disharmony One cannot live in disharmony. Either you accept the game, do the best you can, whatever happens, or… you get out of it. One can’t do both.
Happiness Happiness in life could only be produced by others, while unhappiness we can do on our own.
Advice Take care of your own affairs first: if you have time and energy to spare on others – so be it. If not – perhaps some other time.
