Control If you let others take control of your life, don’t complain when they start doing things that you don’t like.
Attachment If you dismiss everything, what’s left? Life needs attachment. It’s impossible to live otherwise.
Engagement At some point in life, when thinking of an engagement, of things that you liked before, you just cannot summon the energy to do it, you just don’t care anymore. That’s the point when life passes you by.